Intelligence is the ability to adapt to change. – Stephen Hawking
Many people dream of success. And yet, there are just so many people who didn’t achieve it.
When probed, there are “reasons” for not achieving success. Are they really “reasons”? Or are they merely excuses?
Let’s see what are the common excuses for not chasing after our dreams. And more importantly, how can we overcome it?
Excuse #1 : I have no time.
Like, seriously? Of course, there is no denying that there are people who work two shifts to make ends meet. These are the kind of people whose rest time is their 4 hours sleep. I understand their plight.
But for the rest of us, do we really don’t have the time? If we would watch less a couple of streaming movies, that would free up a couple of hours a day.
It is just a matter of prioritization. What is more important? Your current joy or the fruits of your effort?
Excuse #2 : I have no money.
There are people who are poor. And then, there are people who spends indiscriminately. You have the money , all along. It depends on how you spend it. Do you spend it on buying the things that you want (but don’t need)? Or do you spend it on the things that will help you achieve your dreams faster?
There is also a misconception here. You don’t really need a lot of money to achieve success. All you need is to learn how to make do with what you have. When money is a concern, you need to think creatively. How can you leverage on your time and effort to make up for the lack of money?
Excuse #3 : I don’t have the luck.
Don’t aim for the lucky break. Lottery winners are far and away. And even if they win, their winnings don’t last.
Make your own luck. Chase after each and every one of the opportunities. Always be on the learning. Luck is when opportunity meets preparedness.
Excuse #4 : I don’t have the connections.
To have success, you need to know the correct people. People who can make the wheel go round. We are not living in an island. We need each other’s help.
How then do we increase our connection? Always be the helpful one. Develop a habit of helping others. People like people who are helpful and kind. This is a characteristics that draw people to you.
Always seek out new friends. Go out to social gathering and make it a point to know at least two people at each event. Seek out where successful people would gather, and attend the events whenever possible.
These excuses are merely excuses. They hold no power on us, unless we let them to. Don’t give in. Make it a stand, your stand, to say – today is my day. I shall not give any excuses. I shall do my part. I shall work hard for my success.
What would you do? What is your excuse today? And more importantly, how do you resolve on your excuse?